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"Last Chance" blog entry begins here:
With a particular mindset and way of thinking, once a blog is a part of the process then you've got an expanded outlet to venture into deeper thoughts.
When it comes to chances, it's typically human nature to give too many of them, isn't it?
We forgive and perhaps forget, only to assure ourselves such an event or similar occurrence won't appear before us. When that time comes, an individual recollects what exactly happened for someone, mediating the thought of giving that individual a chance.
We measure what has occurred and whether it could be forgotten or forgiven, even perhaps both. With this in mind, a decision is made and there are three possible results: The individual is both forgiven and the (incident) is forgotten, the individual is just forgiven, or the individual is excused and given another chance.
As for my personal experiences, there's times when certain individuals were given countless chances (I'm referring to over 9 chances), in this case that individual assured me that such incidents wouldn't happen again.
She lied.
In fact, she wasn't very much a kind friend or trustworthy in the end, full of lust and envy which just resulted in her self destruction.
In another case there was a guy who disrespected me too much and even blamed me for an excess amount of occurrences, though it was beyond my control so I should have never been blamed anyways, it was just unfortunate events that revolved around him.
At any rate, once there was a case of directly cursing at me and even borderline (physically) threatening me. However, neither of this phased me or even worried me in the end, there was a mass apology months following and I made a final exception. . One last chance.
Since then, this individual hasn't made the same mistake again and to this day regrets having even made such events come to past, safe to say I very slowly began to reconnect since that time.
There is another case, one that is currently undergoing it's way now, oddly enough these individual(s) never got a single extra chance. Though for fortunate reason, there wasn't any necessity for it because we've been on good standing. However, based on occurrences of this year, I've already made the decision that there's no reason to extend my efforts further. In this case I've committed a lot time, money and other factors in this committed friendship.
But, minor context clues have already indicated that this isn't worth further investing the following into: time, money or even continued contact.
This is a case where there doesn't seem to be an reason for a single, last chance.
However, simply this occurrence was (slightly) unexpected, I expected such a case but didn't want to believe it would occur.
I am granting one chance, a last chance that'll last till the end of this year for such to be resolved.
Truth be told, I'm already 100% assured of what the result will be, so forth if ever necessary, I'm only going to offer a single, last chance.
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